Happy reasons being a home-chief👸

This International women’s Day i’m celebrating women and their most important role in the society- a home maker and a Mother🤗 Though being a home maker is not an easy task as considered it is,Although, ugh, that word,We need a new name for this most superheroic of responsibilities, which like all work done by superheroes tends to be carried out in secret, unacknowledged by government and society alike. How about homechief or CEO of the hearth? Sounds interesting!

It’s time to stop apologising and feel proud of the great job you’re doing time has come for us to admit that feminists were wrong. There’s too much pressure on women to have it all. Something has to give it’s either our career, children, marriage or sanity, but something has to go on the back burner.

Clearly, the word ‘housewife’ has a negative stigma attached to it. People seem to think stay-at-home women are slobs who spend the whole time slumped on the sofa, watching daytime TV, eating chocolates and wearing slouchy tracksuits and slippers,woohoo get your research done correctly, housewives and stay at home mothers are more to what you think😉 and there are pretty cool reasons of being a homemaker and a SAHM..

1.Take charge: Here,choosing to be at home one is not entitled to anyone,she is her own boss and that’s the best part you are not answerable to anyone.

2.No Deadlines: As you are your own boss you can do anything anytime(unless you have a mother-in-law 😜) and be privileged to enjoy your time and do things your way at your convenience and also prioritise things the way you want.

3.Enjoy Precious moments of your Child: Being a stay at home mom is so much fun where you get to see every first of your baby, be it first crawl,first step or the first time she sat on her own,life becomes more precious when u see your bub growing each day, it gives meaning to life❤.

4.Bond With Your Home:
I believe one of the most important things you can do for your family is to create a beautiful environment for your children to grow up in, and for you and your partner to enjoy. Does this mean you have to mop floors and iron your husband’s shirts everyday? No. It means you need to create a home full of wonderful memories and family traditions.

5.Plan a vacation anytime:
I plan my vacations anytime according to my convenience, unlike being in a full time job I need not apply for leave or count my no.of holidays taken.I can have a vacation any number of times in a year and make beautiful memories with my kids.

6.Work towards your Passion:Being a home-maker and a stay at home mom you can also get the privilege of working towards your Passion be it painting,designing , calligraphying or any skill and take it to another level and also earn through it at the convenience of your home.

And in this hustling of being a home-maker I follow a few tips to maintain my sanity,here it goes:

▶I make sure I give my wardrobe regular updates.

▶Indulge with occasional beauty treatments.

▶Take regular exercise to keep my energy levels up.

▶Seeing my Girlfriends:
Dealing with motherhood for the first time can be a lonely experience, and after a while you become desperate to meet other mothers, I call them, who you’ll be able to depend on when you’re depressed, arguing with your husband, losing your patience, and about to snap.

It’s so important to have a female support system, so make time to nurture your relationship with girl pals😀.

▶Not Take Things Too Seriously:
It’s OK to admit that some days are an absolute nightmare. When you haven’t had a minute alone and your children are jumping off the walls, when your house is a mess and your husband isn’t around to help, or when you have a migraine and just want to curl up in bed. Days like this make you want to go for a drive and never come home. There’s no denying that, sometimes, life as a housewife really stinks and there’s no shame in feeling sorry for yourself. But you have to find a way to laugh it off.

This post is dedicated to all the lovely Home-makers and Stay at home moms❤ You guys are amazing and doing great🤗

This post is a part of #MomsSpeakUp Blog Train by Nayantara of MommyingBabyT and Prisha of Mummasauras.com Do check their blog and post in this series.

I would like to thank Romila Rawat Negifor introducing me. You can read her piece on https://www.google.com/url?q=http://Www.mamarfeels.wordpress.com&sa=D&ust=1551949665935000&usg=AFQjCNHcShvgyPnwDgKb2yg9ze1rpVyDZA . I would also like to introduce Ghunvathy Ghunjain of blog https://www.google.com/url?q=http://Ghunjain.wordpress.com&sa=D&ust=1551949665935000&usg=AFQjCNFM2XVYvbpw3zbpkvpp3NyfvXOC6g to this blog train. Do spend a few moments on her fascinating insights on parenting.

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